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Marilyn (Durgee) Washburn

Born: Sun., Jun. 3, 1934
Died: Thu., Jan. 18, 2018


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     In the wee hours of January eighteenth 2018, the Angels came and lifted Marilyn Washburn’s spirit from her earthly body and carried her Home.  She was 83 years old.  As she entered Heaven, all her loved ones who passed before her greeted her.  Her son, James E. Washburn, her former spouse Jack E. Washburn, her parents Ed and Nellie Durgee, and other family members and friends.  She leaves behind a loving daughter, Julie A. Washburn and son-in–law Mark W. James, residing in California, and other family and friends. There’s also an earthly angel who gave Marilyn almost eight years of help, compassion and love. Julia Butts, from Camden, NY, was Marilyn’s caregiver and friend.  Julia became like a daughter to Marilyn, and a sister to Marilyn’s daughter Julie.

     To all who knew her, Marilyn will be remembered forever as a loving mother, aunt and friend. She was a kind, selfless, giving, loving, forgiving and nonjudgmental soul.  To many, she was known as “Aunt Marilyn” even though they weren’t related.  Born at home, in Hillsboro, NY, on the Durgee farm, she lived her whole life in Camden, NY. She graduated from Camden Central High School in 1951, and went on to work for her alma mater in the “White House” as a receptionist and secretary.  After that, she worked for Camden Wire as a secretary and phone switch operator. After several years of not working, but being a hard working homemaker, mother, and friend, Marilyn went to Mohawk Valley Community College and received her Certified Caregiver Diploma, and worked for several years thereafter as a caregiver and respite provider.

     For many years Marilyn was involved with the New York State Grange. In December of 1981 she became an official member of The National Grange maintaining her membership for the rest of her life.

     Marilyn enjoyed 4H, the outdoors, hiking, camping, boating, waterskiing, gardening and crocheting.  Gardening and crocheting became her life passion. Marilyn lovingly crocheted many afghans for family and friends.  One beautiful afghan is loved and cherished in Istres France. Anyone who saw her flower gardens was blessed by their beauty and fragrance.

     Most of Marilyn’s life she was a member of Hillsboro Baptist Church in Camden, NY.

     There will be a Celebration of Life for Marilyn in the Camden area.  A service honoring her will be held at Hillsboro Baptist Church with a reception following. Time and date to be determined (late spring early summer.) Arrangements are under the direction of the LaRobardiere Funeral Home, Inc., 109 Main Street, Camden, NY 13316. Marilyn asked that in lieu of flowers, please make memorial contributions to Hillsboro Baptist Church, P.O. Box 439, Camden, NY or Hospice & Palliative Care of Oneida, Herkimer and Eastern Madison Counties in her honor.

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Jeff and Starr Barrett
   Posted Mon January 22, 2018
Our love and deepest sympathy to those who are grieving.
I’m thankful for our visits. She was a beautiful person. 💖🙏

JOYCE T OGDEN
   Posted Mon January 22, 2018
Marilyn was a favorite cousin, whom I visited everytime my travels took me to Camden. Here I am retired in Olympia, Washington, so this condolence will have to do in lieu of visitation.

Anita Phelps Lockhart Spainhower
   Posted Mon January 22, 2018
Dear Julie, I was saddened to learn of your Mother's passing. I was a classmate of both your Mom and Dad, and, in my self-appointed 'secretary' of the Class of 1951 alumni, I have sent an email to those email addresses that I have as contacts to let them know about Marilyn. On behalf of myself and my classmates, we want to extend our condolences to you and your family on your loss. I remember from the days of high school what a gentle soul she was. She will be sadly missed. Warmest regards, Anita and Dave Spainhower.

Richard an alice matthews
   Posted Mon January 22, 2018
Sorry for your loss, didn;t know Marilyn very well but seem like a great person.rest in pease.

Robin & Ray Gage
   Posted Tue January 23, 2018
Marilyn was a beautiful lady who will be missed. Deepest sympathy to her family and friends.

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